When my husband came back from his work trip to Houston, he brought a ghost with him.
He was showing me two objects from his dead aunt’s house. His trip had been to hire contractors to make the house sale-ready, after the family had cleaned out everything they wanted. In the trash, he found two little momentos.
One didn’t bother me. The other, which was a little statue of a tiki-like object from time she spent overseas, immediately made my stomach turn. My husband does not believe in or support my interest in The Woo, but sometimes you just have to react without worrying about what someone else might think. This was one of those moments, when instincts said,”Oh no, we’re taking care of this right away!” and I went right for the sea salt.
As I turned to head toward the pantry, I saw a figure plain as day right behind my husband, hanging back about ten feet.
He was a teenager or a young man with dark brown hair in a red hoodie sweatshirt.
He was there for a second or less and blinked right out.
I sat that statue in sea salt overnight to cleanse it. I didn’t feel bothered by the ghost, but I did feel bothered by the statue.
By the next day, when nothing seemed “off” in the house, I figured we were all good.
It still creeped me out to think that my husband had a traveling companion on his airplane flight and trip through the terminal and in my car on the way home.
I wonder if the ghost was attached to the object, or just a traveling attachment?
This was the first time I have seen a ghost fully apparate, “live and in person,” so to speak.
I usually feel them, sense them, am made aware of them, but now I guess I am going to be seeing them with my eyes open as well.
Changing the Publishing Schedule – Expect A Little Randomness For A While
I am usually annoyed when people make “big announcements” of things that I had never noticed before, like changing or pulling back on their blog publishing schedule. Yet the MBA part of me has you and the spiders all trained to come here at the same time every week, for a Thursday Post. Anyone who is very attentive and interested knows that I publish these every Wednesday night. That means that I have to schedule writing into my week, every week, which is basically good for me.
In the past, I was working from home and could write whenever the mood struck. It made me think about what I had learned every week. It forced a time of contemplation to really observe what was showing up for me, what my clients were teaching me, and what trends were around me, begging for notice and attention for clearing, acknowledging, and taking action on. This is a practice that is healthy, and I recommend that everyone just do it, if you can.
The problem is that I am up to my eyeballs in Life, and some weeks I cannot calm myself enough to really see what is going on. I may have a burst of activity on my Facebook page when insights come or I want to share something, and then other times may go for a week or two and post nothing.
Inconsistency isn’t good business, but it occurs to me that I am not in business here anymore. I do not do readings and I am not selling anything, aside from my professional intuitive development course, Psychic Sparks, which you can still buy to get three hours of time with me working on your specific intuitive blossoming, which is something you don’t see in the market too often.
The thing is, Spirit brings you if they want you here. I really believe that, because I see it time and again.
This is true for every one of you, in your own life. People are brought to you who need you, for whatever it is that you do, for whoever it is that you are, and that’s something special that you bring to the table.
A while ago I stopped doing readings, started doing them again, and then stopped. There are these beautiful moments when I am the messenger of something Spirit wants you to know, and I get all tingly when the synchronicity and the signs show up and I can be of service. That does not happen nearly as much anymore when I solicit readings. It just happens as I am walking down the street. Maybe there will be a time when I want to do readings again and the energy is pulling me to say,”Yes!” but it is not right now.
That said, I will throw some readings in here and there to those who write to me with a heart-felt question. If you want to be considered for a reading, to be published here at my whim, just send your photo and your question stated in a paragraph to the Contact page or write it in the Comments below. I offered this to my Facebook fans last week and – thanks to all of you who sent in questions – I will be answering the first one below. I am not going to be answering “prediction” questions unless they really tie in to your next best step or there is a genuine purpose for you to have the information. I’m not sure how to explain how that happens exactly, except that some things are occasionally “slated” to occur, no matter what…and these things get answered when the time is right. That’s opposed to the ever-moving, ever-changing future that hasn’t come into being yet, that depends upon your actions and the actions of others, an answer to which serves no one and takes away from your own authority.
I go where Spirit encourages me to go, with the person whose message is begging to be delivered. If it happens to be you, great! If not, then there is a reason for that…the most likely one is that you have to do your own work, or it just doesn’t serve you to get an answer neatly delivered by someone else (me) at this time. If you aren’t chosen, it will unfold anyway and you didn’t need me in the first place, OK?
One Quick Intuitive Question And Answer
This week’s question comes from Stephanie, who asks:
I’ve got a general question about my husband and our work/life situation. I have been working from home for years, and my husband has recently transitioned to it as well. I really enjoy it, and I think he does too, so much as he tells me. I’ve been working over the past few years on increasing my trust of “interpreting” the intuitive messages I’m getting. In this regard (our work life and finances) over the past week or so, I’ve been feeling like I’m missing something–like I’m being sent a message but I’m not quite hearing it. Is the current path we’re on leading us to the “optimal life,” or should we be exploring other options, such as me working on my book or something else? Or all together? I’m not looking for predictions, just the guidance that I might not be getting or might be misinterpreting.
The message I am getting from your Guide Team for you and your husband, in your highest good, is that your husband’s best path is not to work from home. There is a dynamic at play where you are the major energetic lead in the relationship…you hold more power and this can lead to a sort of domination or mothering of him that is not best for the health of the marriage. He needs his own space and time to generate his power through the interaction he gets outside of the home, in working with others. That work that he does leads him to bring healthy balance when he gets home.
I am seeing him outdoors and working with his body and hands in a physical way. I’m actually seeing wood, like logs. If he is a “paperwork and phone guy” in his profession right now then that is not what he is best suited for. I’m not getting that much in the way of specifics, just that he is the one who is “misplaced” right now, not you. You aren’t supposed to be changing anything right now in your own career. That intuitive, gut level feeling that “something is off” is your intuition telling you that although YOU may be loving him being home, it’s not what’s best for him or your marriage.
It’s not your job to tell him this or to encourage him to change anything. He’ll get an opportunity to move on. When that happens, your best bet is to lovingly accept that and allow him to move on, knowing it serves you both best.
Thank you for submitting a question and allowing me into your energetic space to deliver a message.
Crazy Energy And What’s Going On With You?
Feel free to send your questions in even if they aren’t specific to you, but just are “energy changes” you’re noticing going on in the world or in your world. SO much is changing right now, it’s almost as if nothing is predictable day to day. Don’t limit yourself to what you think of as “a reading.” If you’ve just been wondering “what is going on??” and want to chat about it, please just ask in the comments and I’ll be happy to answer, even if it results in a “mini-reading” of sorts. I can hear there are people out there waiting to be answered and feeling out-of-sorts, and these are generally very easily cleared up – you just have to be willing to ASK 🙂