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Should You Be Afraid That Something Bad or Scary Will Come Out in Your Intuitive Reading?


He's supposed to do that. You aren't.

In a word, no!

When I first started telling people I was intuitive or psychic earlier this year, I hesitated a little out of concern that they would think there was something wrong with me.  Not to worry, that was not what they were afraid of.

They were afraid of two things:

  • That I would suddenly know all their secrets
  • That if they got a reading something “bad” would come up that they didn’t want to know about

 Let’s dispense with this silliness here and now. 

Does A Psychic Intuitive Know All of Your Secrets?

I do not log into your energy and see and know everything about you as I pass you on the street, sit in your living room, read your blog or talk to you on the phone.   

This is for the same reason that I ask friends and acquaintences not to ask me to delve into your life intuitively every time we talk or every time you have a question you’d like an answer to.  In fact, it’s the exact opposite. 

I do not walk around “tuned in” or “on.” 

I already feel everything everyone around is feeling all around me, so I have to actively shut it off or I would be up, down, left and right.  I’d rather be me, thanks, and that is not an easy thing to maintain.  

Any time someone pops up unscheduled, I have to zone in on their energy to access their spiritual team, and that takes something out of me.  This is not a perfect world where I can read for ten people in a day, in depth.  I limit it by planning my day in advance.  If I am writing, I don’t do readings that day, either, because it pulls my energy up into the ether when it needs to be grounded.

So no, I can’t and won’t invade your privacy.  In fact, it is considered most unethical to gain information about others, unasked and without permission.  If I were to behave that way, my access to the Akashic Records would be summarily revoked.  This is a sacred thing, and everyone who legitimately endeavors to do this work does it with  permission from on high. 

 We do it in service, to help and to guide each of you.  We do it for the greatest good.  We explicitly do NOT do it to satisfy our own personal curiosity. 

In fact, that’s why it is rare that we even attempt to read for people who are closest to us – the odds that the information we get will be good and legitimate are low, because we are intertwined with those people and it is nearly impossible to keep our own egos entirely out of the picture.  You have to be pretty good to know when you’re being fooled.  The universe is tricky that way. 

On the other hand, if you don’t know me and I am hanging around your blog for a few weeks or months and you do not blog about spirituality or intuition in any way, there might be a reason why I was sent over there to help you or get a message through.  When I’ve left, you’ll know you’ve received it.  Things do happen “behind the scenes” and sometimes I’ve noticed in retrospect that I was sent to deliver a message to help you.


Why You Should Not Be Scared Of Bad Things Coming Out of a Reading

In the last couple of weeks I had several people who have some problems in their life say they would like to get a reading but they won’t because they are flat out afraid of what they will hear. 

Others are convinced that the chances are good something really scary is coming down the pike, and they don’t want to know it in advance. 

So I guess that means they’d rather stay blind?

What they are all really doing is living in fear. 

People, friends…do not do this to yourselves.

There is no predestiny at work that says something absolutely awful is going to happen to you. 

If you have set a course where there is something ugly that you are going to have to face, wouldn’t you rather Start Today on dealing with it and minimizing it?

Or would you prefer to be smacked in the face when it comes along unbidden?  I have had this happen to me and I don’t recommend that course of action.

Do not hide your head in the sand.  Allowing fear of the unknown to rule your world is  unnecessary, foolish and counterproductive.

You do not need to get a reading to know this.  What you need to do is be honest with yourself and say,”What do I already know?  What hints have I been getting that are making me worried and leery that something is about to hit me hard?”

You are intuitive yourself.  You know yourself.  These things are not a mystery unless you refuse to take a hint.  If something scares you, turn right around and stare it in the face and say,”I’ve been afraid of you, but today I face you and say no more.”  Watch it shrivel up right in front of your eyes.

Facing your fears and taking action to dispell them is the very best gift you can give yourself.

What Can You Really Expect From An Intuitive Reading With Me?

I am not a witch.  I don’t deal in dark matter, magik, or cast spells.  No one who meets me on the street would have a clue that I do this work. There is zero hippie factor or airy-fairy about me.   If you want someone who likes unicorns, dots their Is with hearts, and wears flowing skirts, look elsewhere.

I spent most of my life in a suit, running meetings, making business proposals, solving problems and just going to work every day and taking my kids out to birthday parties and the pool on the weekends. 

Until I quit that and now I do this.  Usually sitting on my porch, with my 52 dogs at my feet, in shorts.  There’s a nice breeze and a forest here.  

I look like (and am) a regular person who had one too many kids a little bit on the late side and could use to go to the gym every day.  I am the magical age of 44, which means that I have had a lot of experience and seen a lot of stuff, both personally and professionally, but am not ready to go yet.  I am also overeducated, so no matter what you bring me, I tend to get it, know somebody who gets it, or will research it until I’m satisfied that we’re on the right track.

I have an unbelievably awesome team of friends, colleagues, and spirits working with me and through me to get you to where you are supposed to be going, with your very best interests at heart. 

You know, not for nothing, you were put here for a reason.  You Are Important.  You have places to go, people to see and things to do.  If your life confuses the heck out of you, let us help you fix that, for goodness sake!

I can help you train yourself to access your own intuition. 

I can access the wisdom of your very own spiritual team (yes, you have one!)

These are all Good Things.  There is a little of the Woo Woo to it, but does that really matter?  Or do you really just want to know

  • what to do next
  • who you really are
  • what you are meant to be doing
  • how to take action to see your dreams come to fruition
  • what your life purpose is (answer: To Live It To The Fullest)

When you get a reading, you will KNOW who is on your team.  You will GET ANSWERS to life’s dilemmas.  You will SEE if you are on the right track.  You will FIND OUT things you never knew before about yourself.  You will be ENCOURAGED and SUPPORTED on your path.

See, nothing scary about that at all, is there?

I’ve just started a Facebook Fan page for A Clear Sign. 

Please join me there!  I’ll be having special offers, answering questions, and an upcoming  intuitive question and answer session.  Make sure you click from this page (or, if in Facebook, click A Clear Sign which says “REFERENCE” – otherwise you will find yourself in the wrong place.)

I’m on Twitter, too, but the fact is I cannot be limited to 130 characters.  Brevity is the soul of wit.  I know this but can’t comply.

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